Alfred Decker - British guard treats German POWs
"At Qassasin Camp, in Egypt, for a while, we had to guard thousands of German prisoners of war, who had been taken at Alamein. They looked really exhausted and were almost all about the same age as us and wanted to be sociable; it was not their fault they were at war and they seemed very pleased to have been taken prisoner.
We would take out small working parties about the camp doing maintenance. Two of the young Germans in my party spoke very good English and were quite well educated, wanting to make conversation and I, rightly or wrongly, obliged. Their names were Helmut Beckermeyer and Alfred Decker, both from Bremen in northern Germany. They told me all about their families and homes, giving me their address.
I formed the opinion that not all Germans were bad, the same as not all English are good, because I had come across some awful characters in my time in the army. Granted, we were at war, but I felt that if I had been a prisoner of war I would have appreciated my guard showing me some kindness, so my favourable reaction to the young Germans was to give them little treats, like biscuits and chocolate. These were soldiers just like us – Wermarkt not SS.
Eventually, I wrote a letter to the parents of those boys, telling them that I had met their sons and that they were alive and well and happy to have been taken prisoner. Apparently, they had not known this news. The mother of Alfred Decker wrote back thanking me for my kindness and sent me their only photograph of Alfred. I still have the letter and snap among my souvenirs. God had been good to me and I felt I was upholding my faith by being kind to those lads, and I never regretted the action I took."
'I used to give them little treats, like biscuits and chocolate.'
Below is an extract from this war diary book about Bill meeting Alfred.
Alfred Decker - Story of tracing the family
Office note: A way to find out what happened with the Borsinsky family from Bremen may be to ask the Registration Office - in Germany: Einwohnermeldeamt (address identification).
Borsinsky is an extremly rare name in Germany - "Borsinsky" had 0 hits on a German search engine. So it should be possible to contact all Borsinskys in Germany. This genealogy map shows where Borsinsky family live - remarkably all in Bremen!
There are 33 persons with the name "Decker" in the telephone book.
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Do you know anything about this man's family? Please help me trace them. Thank you.
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The last known address for Alfred in 1943 was:
Vegesackerstrasse 73 – III
See Alfred's grave stone across ->
The names on the grave are:
Helga Decker 6.6.1928 - 20.1.1967;
Herta Borsinsky 6.10.1904 - 29.12.1985;
Alfred Decker 1.4.1924 - 2.6.1998 (Aged 74).
Reading the end of the letter, it seems that Alfred's family name was Borsinsky. Looking at the grave, Herta Borsinsky was possibly Alfred´s mother though it's not clear why she changed her surname - maybe she married again. Was Helga Alfred's younger sister? Can anyone shed any more light on this story?